By Anna Chanthaphavong
Almost about 3,000 people die a year from suicide, and about 750,000 people attempt suicide, according to Kevin Caruso, excutive director of http://www.suicide.org/suicide-faqs.html. An average of one person dies by suicide every 16.2 minutes. According to, http://health.india.com it’s the third leading cause of death for those whose age is 15-44 However, suicide isn’t only happening to only teenagers. Some children under the age of 10 have committed suicide. One of the many leading causes of suicide is depression or if the person has a mental illness.
Depression is usually caused by; relationships, bullying, low self-esteem, abuse, illness, death of a love one and many other reasons. Bully victims are 2 to 9 times more likely to commit suicide, including those who are cyberbullied, emotionally or physically bullied. And many of the people w
ho try to commit suicide either cut, suffocate, hang, jumping from height or drown themselves. Most of the people who are suicidal don’t get the help they need and don’t tell anyone about their feelings because they feel that no one understands them. Those people who feel that no one understands them usually have small little problems. But just because their problems aren’t as big as others doesn’t mean it’s not any less important.
I get a little frustrated when I offer my help, but they refuse it. Those people who are suicidal just need to accept the help their friends are trying to give. It isn’t easy for the friends either; they want to help their friend from killing themselves, but they don’t want to push them to the point where they’re annoyed or angry at them. And they don’t want to leave them alone with their problems and let them think that no one cares about them.
The people who are suicidal usually think that killing them
selves is the only way to solve their problems. And people who cut think that it’s the only way to help their pain
. But there are people they can talk to, such as; counselors, friends, parents, and therapists. They think that no one understands them, and most of the time that’s true, but there are people who care for them, and even though they don’t know what they are dealing with, they still want to help them get through it. The people who understand them, just let them go through the problem by themselves, not even doing anything about it. Most of the times, the people who understand usually go through the same problems, and usually don’t help because the problem is still bugging them, or they’re focus on themselves. While the people who care about them, are willing to help them and want them to get better. They might not know what’s going on, but they want to help and try to understand what they go through .And at least 80 percent of suicidal people who get treatment, are treated successfully (www.save.org)
However, if people notice their friends cutting or getting depressed, they should try to help them. Even if they refuse the help they have to at least try to reach out for them. If the person who’s cutting themselves is still doing it, tell someone about it. A counselor will be happy to help them with their problems. But this is not only the friend’s responsibility, the person who is suicidal also needs to get help. If anybody has even the slightest thoughts of killing themselves, they immediately have to go tell someone about it. If you are having thoughts about killing yourself or know someone who does, call 1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433) or 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255). Suicide isn’t the answer for a problem that could be fixed.